Friday, May 25, 2012

Places to Go, People to See

So I have a bit of a crazy day today so that means I don't really have time to upload pictures today. I'll try to make up for it tomorrow though.

Here's my schedule:
  • Clean the house and get myself ready before Antonis wakes up
  • Go to work with Antonis so we can talk to his mom....I'm finally pushing the baby name talk (I'll explain after)
  • Go to Melena's shop to ask her about borrowing a maternity dress for the baptism on Sunday
  • Come home, get ready to go to the beach
  • Dinner with Tim and Kath

As for cleaning the house...I don't really have to do that but I absolutely HATE coming home to messy house. It stresses me out! So dishes, tidy up, fold the laundry and put it away. Boring, blah blah blah, moving on....

Here's the big, scary part of the day: talking to Antonis' mom about the baby's name. So the traditional Greek family always names the baby after the grandparents. The first baby born is named after the husband's parents; so if it's a girl she takes the husband's mom's name, if it's a boy he takes the husband's father's name. The second baby born takes the mother's parents name. And then after that, I'm not really sure what happens, my guess is it's a free-for-all. In other words by the time you get to the third baby they adopt Canadian baby naming practices and you choose the name you want without anyone telling you what you have to do (hmmm, I hit the keys a little harder typing those last words...just hormones? must be). As you know we're having a girl, so the "rule" states that we would have to name her Olympia. 

I really don't have a problem with the name at all, which is always everyone's first reaction. I'm not looking to break tradition for shallow reasons, my reason is simply this: We live in Greece, Olympia will see her grandbaby every day if she wants to....but I have parents also. Unfortunately, they live VERY far away and will be lucky if they get to see their grand daughter once a year. WHEW, getting a little emotional now....

This is my problem. I don't feel right naming the baby after her when she gets to be the happy, doting grandma already. It doesn't seem fair and I feel like I'd be totally disrespecting my parents by following this tradition.

Antonis on the other hand, is afraid of disrespecting his parents by NOT following the tradition. This has been a heated topic for about 3 years now. The only way I was able to get Antonis to consider other names for the baby was to agree to explaining to his mom why this is hard for me, and then ask her permission to break tradition. 

So today's the big day. 

I personally think she'll understand and will be fine with this. Antonis...he's not so sure. We'll see what happens. 

If  Olympia is ok with it, I do have a name picked out BUT I'm not telling anyone what it is yet! I've thrown some ideas out there, but even the select few of you who think you know what my name choice is...sorry! You don't know either. I don't know if I'll make you wait until she's born...I might..but I haven't decided yet. We'll have to see how this discussion goes first...

SO after we have this stressful argument talk I'm going to stop by my friend Melena's shop. Last weekend she mentioned she had the perfect maternity dress for me to borrow. Our friends Tara and Giannis are baptizing their baby girl on Sunday (which is also mine and Antonis' wedding anniversary!! YAY!), but unfortunately all my cute dresses are no longer cute on me. Correction: they're still cute, I just can't get them on me. 

After that Antonis will get his break and we'll go the beach for a while. Yesterday's storm cleared up last night and today looks perfect. I went for a walk last night around 8pm and it smelled like Spring! It was so nice! I got some good pictures of sheep too but I'll put those up later because I don't have time right now.

And finally dinner tonight with Tim and Kath, our lovely friends from England who have been here for their annual 2-week Molyvos holiday and will be heading back to the UK tomorrow morning. I'll have pictures of that for tomorrow.

OK, so that's my day. It might not seem that busy to the normal person but when your 27 weeks pregnant and walking yourself to each one of these places....it's exhausting. Speaking of 27 weeks pregnant...

I'M 27 WEEKS PREGNANT TODAY!!! 

After next week I'm in the 3rd trimester baby, YEAH!

Alright, I have lots to do so I better go. OH, before I forget, I got quite a lot of organizing done in the baby's room yesterday which I'm really happy about. But we'll talk about that another day and I'll show pics of the progress.

For now, just one picture until tomorrow because I couldn't resist....


9 comments:

  1. Tara Darling, i'm totally with you for this Big Name Talk!!! I know what you are going through... I'm sure Olympia is ok with it, she's such a lovely person, but usually it's the surrounding people (not talking about the closest ones now!) who have The Problem, especially in the little village like Molyvos. I'm sure it will go fine. I love your blog and especially i LOVED the PELVIS PRESLEY - i'm still laughing.... loud.... alone... filakia xxxx

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    1. Thank you Marjaana! You're absolutely right, it's usually 'the others' that have something negative to say and we don't need to worry about them. I think Olympia is going to be very understanding...I hope!

      And by the way, Antonis is STILL calling me Pelvis Presley! I think he's decided it's his new pet name for me unfortunately haha! Could be worse I suppose...Filakia!

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  2. I have a solution - name her Olympia and MOVE HOME! :)

    xoxoxox

    P.S. I still find it hard to have sympathy for you when your 'crazy day' involves getting ready for and going to the beach.

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    1. I would be totally fine with that but I think that would be an even bigger conversation with even less of a chance of things going my way unfortunately. But you never know, Greece doesn't even have a government right now so it could still happen.

      And I'll try to cut back on the beach talk haha! But really I'm just trying to convince you that pregnancy is awesome and that you should try it ;)

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  3. I have been meaning to ask you how this talk went! I can't wait to hear the update! And I am sooo excited to hear what you have in mind for a name!!! I know you shared some ideas (that sounded sooo lovely!) but now I'm curious to know what you really have in mind! Eeee! I hope the talk went well! And holy crap, I can't believe you're going on 3 years of being married! So awesome!!! And wow does time ever fly! Huge congrats to you guys! Sounds like you have a busy weekend. Hope you have a great time!

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    1. Holy crap is right, where the heck did 3 years go??? Thanks for the congrats Karina! I'm just hoping the weather decides to cooperate so Antonis can take a morning off and we can go on a little anniversary adventure somewhere :)

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  5. Lindsey has a point, move home! Then you and Toovey can be preggers/baby laden together! In a way I wouldn't mind if you do end up with Olympia since I already have an honorary niece with that name so works really well for me! (cause this is totally about me :P) Funny enough, it's her baptism on Saturday!

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    1. I keep thinking about how awesome it would be to eat ice cream, get fat and buy baby clothes with Toovey! Seriously, that would be so much fun haha!

      Happy baptism day to little Olympia! That's so weird! I hope she doesn't cry too much :( And there's still a chance that this naming thing will work out in your favour Liz haha! If it can't go may way I can at least take comfort in knowing you're happy with the decision haha!

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